Advent comes from the Latin word meaning "coming." Jesus is coming, both into a manger and into our hearts anew. While we typically think of Advent as a joyous season, it is also meant to be a period of preparation... perparation for the arrival of Jesus. How are you preparing?
Maybe you've already decorated for Christmas. Awesome. Beyond decorating though, how can we prepare our hearts and home for the coming of Christ? We've got a few ideas on this page just for you and your family.
The Advent wreath has been a part of Catholic tradition since the 1600’s. Prior to this, candles and wreaths were used during December as a sign of hope in the future. The wreath can be made of different types of evergreens, each representing life.
The wreath is generally made into a circle, which has no beginning or end, symbolizes the eternity of God, the immortality of the soul, and the everlasting life found in Christ. Any pine cones, nuts, or seedpods used to decorate the wreath also symbolize life and resurrection. All together, the wreath of evergreens depicts the immortality of our soul and the new, everlasting life promised to us through Christ, the eternal Word of the Father, who entered our world becoming true man and who was victorious over sin and death through His own passion, death, and resurrection.
The four candles represent the four weeks of Advent. A tradition is that each week represents one thousand years, to sum to the 4,000 years from Adam and Eve until the Birth of the Savior. Three candles are purple and one is rose. The purple candles in particular symbolize the prayer, penance, and preparatory sacrifices and goods works undertaken at this time. The rose candle is lit on the third Sunday, Gaudete Sunday, when the priest also wears rose vestments at Mass; Gaudete Sunday is the Sunday of rejoicing, because the faithful have arrived at the midpoint of Advent, when their preparation is now half over and they are close to Christmas. The progressive lighting of the candles symbolizes the expectation and hope surrounding our Lord’s first coming into the world and the anticipation of His second coming to judge the living and the dead.
The light again signifies Christ, the Light of the world. Some traditions include a white candle be placed in the middle of the wreath, which represents Christ and is lit on Christmas Eve. Historically the appropriate candle of the advent wreath was lit at dinner on Sunday after grace was said. Each week adding another candle till all four are lit ending with the last Sunday before Christmas.
Adapted in part from: Saunders, Rev. William. “The History of the Advent Wreath.” Arlington Catholic Herald.
God let your blessing come upon us as we light this wreath. May it turn our hearts to you in the days ahead. Grant us the hope, peace and joy and love we long for, as we await the coming of your Son with patient hearts. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
God, as we light our second candle, we place our trust in you, just as Mary did.
Open my heart, let me be your servant, lead me where you desire. Help me to be an instrument of peace.
Mary, teach us to trust in God has you have. Let us do what sometimes seems unthinkable and impossible in this world. Let us be humble and to accept without always understanding why or how. Amen.
O God, prepare our hearts as we light the second candle, remove any sadness that hinders us from feeling the joy and hope the coming of Christ brings. Help us to proclaim the words that Mary said, My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord, my spirit rejoices in God my savior. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
O God, as we light the third candle, open our hearts to prepare the way for the coming of Christ. Guide us in your ways of compassion so that we may extend your love and mercy to all people. We ask this in the name of Jesus, the Eternal Word, who lives with you and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
(If you can, before you open your Christmas presents)
Let me just for a moment, Lord, hold this time in our hearts. Help us to remember the immense love you have for each of us in this room and for all those who cannot be with us. With each gift that is opened, no matter how perfect or not, let me feel again the many ways you gift us each day, especially with your presence in our hearts and the presence of each other in our lives. Amen.
Christmas is not an end to Advent, it is a beginning. A beginning of a new season, a new journey in our hearts with Christ.